Blow Job

Question: I have done most things , but i have always been unsure about this . i have been told several different things . so i just want to clear it up really.

Just as there are millions of different snowflakes, no blowjob is the same.  First of all, no two men are the same, which means every guy likes something different and will want different techniques from a blow job.

There is no ‘right’ way, which is why you’re confused by all the different things you’ve been told.  They’re probably all right for those individual guys and situations.

That said, here are some basic things to keep in mind when giving a blowjob:

• Start by licking the penis on all sides and the top to help give yourself some lubrication.  This is going to help you move along the penis in a much more comfortable way for him and for you.
• Slowly put your mouth around the tip of the penis and begin to move down the shaft as far as is comfortable.  Repeat up and down movements.
• Keep your teeth behind your lips so as not to scratch your man.

Those are the basics.

You need to try out different things for your partner or just ask him what he likes.  No sense in wasting your time, right?  Some guys like women to move faster, while other guys like it slow and easy.

If you have troubles getting your mouth around the whole shaft of the penis, that’s okay.   Just use a hand to make up for the rest - it will still feel good to him.

You might also want to grab his scrotum (gently) and massage the balls as you are moving up and down on his penis.

Other great things to try: humming as you suck, switching from your mouth on the penis to your hand on his penis if your jaw gets tired, rotating your mouth on the penis, trying to deep throat or take in as much of his penis as you can, etc.

In the end, you’re going to have to listen to your guy to see how good of a time he’s having.  If he’s not complaining, you’re doing it right.

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What are some good tips for giving oral sex?

My husband and I have been together for 8 years. There is NOTHING that we haven’t done! I always tell him that “I’ll try anything once, twice if I like it” and I stick by that 120% Anyhow, he love getting oral sex from me and I was wondering if there are any SPECIAL tricks that will knock him off his feet! Please let me know your secrets!

First of all, I don’t think you need to hear this, but the best advice anyone can use in relation to blowjobs is to have fun. You should be enthusiastic when you’re down there – your man will appreciate it. If you’re just bobbing your head up and down while looking at the clock, chances are he’s going to realize you’re not into it.

Okay, you have the enthusiasm down, but what about the ‘tease’? Most women who are used to their partner’s body will just go for the blow and follow a regular routine until their partner cums. Sure, it’s effective, but what fun is that? Instead, make things a little bit more exciting by teasing your partner. Bring him to the edge of orgasm, then take your lips off his penis and move somewhere else on his body. When he’s calmed back down, then go back to sucking. Repeat until he starts to beg you to finish him off.

Don’t forget that the penis isn’t the only thing involved in a blowjob. Look for his scrotum and gently (emphasis on the gently, unless he’s into the hard stuff) massage and stroke this area as you suck or stroke his penis. This is going to feel amazing to him, but it will also keep him good and hard – and it will keep you from getting too fatigued.

Change up the strokes you use and try different kinds of pressure too as you are moving up and down his cock. This is going to create different sensations and help him enjoy every second all the more.

Cock Ring

A fun tip? Try a vibrating cock ring. Now, not every guy likes these, but why not give it a whirl. That vibration combined with the sucking and caressing can be mind blowing. Look in the cock section of your local sex toy shop or online store to find other goodies to try out.

I’m sure your man won’t mind.

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