27 May 08 Oral Sex Do It To Me!
Hi, I am an engaged girl and I love to have oral sex. When I am with my fiancé I always do oral sex for him, but he doesn’t do it to me. Well, he did it one time or twice. Last time I asked for me to be shaved in case he wanted to lick me but he didn’t. I asked him why and he answered that he noticed a bad smell; even I had a shower beforehand.
What can I do to make him do it? I talked to him but he didn’t do anything. Help please! Thank you
There are two different questions here, I think. First of all, how can you get someone to ‘do’ oral sex for you? The answer is not as simple as you think. Some people simply don’t enjoy performing oral sex. Now, as you have mentioned that this person is your fiancé, chances are pretty good that you two have been together for a while already, so it’s more than likely that you already knew this about them when he proposed.
If your fiancé has suddenly stopped performing oral sex, that’s an entirely different matter. If the sudden oral sex strike is new, you need to look at your relationship for a moment. Are you having troubles outside of the bedroom? If so, that might be the cause. Oral sex is a very intimate and special act, and one that someone might feel uncomfortable doing if their relationship isn’t running along smoothly.
The other question that I see is that the oral sex problem might be caused by the ’smell’ that your fiancé mentioned. First of all, all women smell different, depending on their body chemistry. A woman should smell musky, but they should not smell bad or fishy. If that’s the kind of smell your fiancé is noticing, that might be caused by an infection. Have you noticed any other symptoms lately? Itching? A discharge? If so, get yourself to your gynecologist so that you can get treated.
In the end, you can’t ‘make’ anyone have oral sex with you. Sorry. But what you can do is find alternatives like mutual masturbation or perhaps have your fiancé try using a vibrator on you to simulate the act of oral sex.
And talk - again - about why you enjoy oral sex and make sure that you’re holding up your end of the bargain too. Are you listening to his needs?
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