16 Apr 08 Give Me Oral Sex!!
Why don’t women enjoy pleasing their man with some good old fashion oral sex? My wife HATES it I mean HATES it and I love it. Oh and yes I have no problem going down on her either.
Here’s the main concern I have with this question: no woman has to do anything. It seems to me that if you’re sort of forcing the issue, you’re probably not making it any more exciting for your wife to try to see things your way. You need to make this something that’s important to you, but also something that she doesn’t feel pressured at doing.
Outside of the bedroom, you need to have a talk to see exactly what the problem is. If it’s a problem of hygiene or of logistics (some women have smaller mouths that can cramp easily, especially when their partner’s penis is larger), you need to do your part to help her feel more comfortable with whatever is bothering her. This should be a team effort to help both of you get what you want - not just one person pressuring the other.
Talk to your wife about how much it would please you to have oral sex more often. But realize that this conversation probably isn’t going to change things overnight. Each time she does go down on you, make sure you are being appreciative and that you point out how good that makes you feel. Sometimes women need to hear that they are pleasing their man and that encourages them to do more.
And if it’s a problem with putting her mouth on your penis - some women just don’t like it and can’t handle it - work on teaching her about hand jobs. This can be just as pleasing of an experience and certainly a middle ground that you can both enjoy.
Again, if you’re pressuring her or making her feel badly about her dislike of oral sex, chances are good that you’re never going to get any. Instead, try some of these tips and see what happens. In the end, after all, it’s up to her what she decides. But that doesn’t mean you can’t help her along the way.
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