26 Aug 07 Spit vs Swallow?

Before you get started, a big thing on a lot of women’s minds is whether or not they should spit or swallow. This is a personal decision for the woman and there is no right answer

Many women want to learn how to swallow, but are afraid that it will be an embarrassing or even disgusting experience for them. But here’s the truth: swallowing is not as difficult as it seems, not is it as scary when you have a partner that’s willing to let you get comfortable with oral sex first before you try to swallow.

When a man ejaculates, it typically will only include about two tablespoons of semen in total. If you get out a measuring spoon right now, you’ll see that this isn’t a lot. Of course, some men will ejaculate more and some will ejaculate less - it all depends on the man. But this is the average ejaculate volume, so if you’re worried that it’s going to be too much, you’ll be happy to know that it won’t be.

Other women aren’t interested in the taste, so they favor spitting out the semen when it is in their mouths. This is fine too. It won’t take away from the actual orgasm - because the orgasm has already happened. If the woman wants to be discrete about spitting, they can keep a washcloth or cup nearby.

When a man wants a woman to swallow, they will want to realize that until a woman is comfortable, they might not do it. However, if the man shares with the woman that this is something that he wants and she agrees to try, they can work together to make things more comfortable for her.

For example, the man can always be sure to give the woman a signal when he’s about to ejaculate so that it’s not a big surprise for her and she can decide what she wants to do. This will also help her take control of the oral sex decision of spitting or swallowing.

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