Blow Job

Question: I have done most things , but i have always been unsure about this . i have been told several different things . so i just want to clear it up really.

Just as there are millions of different snowflakes, no blowjob is the same.  First of all, no two men are the same, which means every guy likes something different and will want different techniques from a blow job.

There is no ‘right’ way, which is why you’re confused by all the different things you’ve been told.  They’re probably all right for those individual guys and situations.

That said, here are some basic things to keep in mind when giving a blowjob:

• Start by licking the penis on all sides and the top to help give yourself some lubrication.  This is going to help you move along the penis in a much more comfortable way for him and for you.
• Slowly put your mouth around the tip of the penis and begin to move down the shaft as far as is comfortable.  Repeat up and down movements.
• Keep your teeth behind your lips so as not to scratch your man.

Those are the basics.

You need to try out different things for your partner or just ask him what he likes.  No sense in wasting your time, right?  Some guys like women to move faster, while other guys like it slow and easy.

If you have troubles getting your mouth around the whole shaft of the penis, that’s okay.   Just use a hand to make up for the rest - it will still feel good to him.

You might also want to grab his scrotum (gently) and massage the balls as you are moving up and down on his penis.

Other great things to try: humming as you suck, switching from your mouth on the penis to your hand on his penis if your jaw gets tired, rotating your mouth on the penis, trying to deep throat or take in as much of his penis as you can, etc.

In the end, you’re going to have to listen to your guy to see how good of a time he’s having.  If he’s not complaining, you’re doing it right.

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