05 Sep 07 Cunninglus - Soft and Slow

Cunninglus Licking the Hood

I received an interesting query last night from a reader who says she’s had oral sex twice and she finds it unbearably painful when her boyfriend gives oral to her. She wants some advice about how to make it more pleasurable.
Don’t worry. You will love oral sex and will be begging for some more but first I need a few questions answered.

It is difficult for me to visualise the type of pain you are getting. Are you physically sore after the oral sex or during oral sex? Are the Labia Minoras (or inner lips) swollen or painful? If the answer is “yes”, your boyfriend is giving it to you way too roughly hence the pain. If most of the pain is during the oral sex, maybe your guy should try a different technique and see which ones feel good.

One error that many men make is that they do not understand that it can take longer for a a woman to climax than it does for men. This is different for each woman, but it should be kept in mind. Mention to your boyfriend to be patient and not to make you feel as if you are taking “too long”.

Let him know that it hurts you and ask to him trying things a lot slower. Ask to him to be more gentle and when things start feeling good, you can ask him to pick up the pace. One last thing to consider, does your boyfriend have a lot of facial hair? Because this could also make it feel rough like sandpaper if he is not trimmed.

I am not a doctor or giving medical advice but your vagina could be infected too. It’s possible to spread infections when sexually active so I would recommend seeing a doctor and rule this possibility out no matter what.

I love your questions and I love to answer them, so please keep them coming and I’ll keep you cuming.

Good lov and great oral.

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