Question: In the near future I plan on giving the guy I am in love with oral  
sex… Is it possible for my jaw to lock up & if so how can I prevent  
it?

How to give a good Blow Job!

Okay, first of all, let’s have a little talk – you did ask your guy if he’s been tested for STDs, right? Yes? Good, let’s move on.

Lockjaw happens when your muscle works harder than it’s used to working and thus it spasms and contracts – ouch. So, the main way to prevent lockjaw is to exercise the muscle often so as to be in ’shape’ for oral sex.

Since your guy probably doesn’t want you practicing oral sex on everyone you know, you need a few other alternative ways to prevent lockjaw from happening.

Start slowly – There’s no need to rush oral sex anyway, but when you start slowly, you can work your muscles in a calm and controlled manner, allowing your muscles to stay loose.

Relax – If you’re tensing your muscles as you go up and down, you will cramp up. Keep breathing and focus on keeping your jaw as relaxed as possible.

Take breaks – Don’t keep your mouth on his rod the whole time. Move up and down and then switch things up. This will keep him excited and you pain free.

Now, if you have a small mouth that’s prone to lockjaw, it might take you a while to ‘teach’ your muscles how to relax, but it can be done.

Just have fun and don’t even think about lockjaw in the first place. Chances are good that if you don’t think about it, you won’t have any troubles with it.

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Question: Do girls like giving blowjobs?  How can a guy make it more enjoyable for her? Is it possible?

Blow Jobs?

This question comes up (no pun intended) so often.

Men have some sort of perception that women don’t like to give blowjobs, but this is far from the truth.  True, some women don’t like to give blowjobs and if you try to push them into liking to do the deed, they’re going to hate giving oral sex all the more.  But that makes sense, doesn’t it?

First of all, let’s not assume that women don’t like to give blowjobs.  Many do, and many more want to enjoy giving oral sex more, but they might not know what they’re doing or they might have had a bad experience in the past.

To make things more enjoyable for her, you need to be patient.  Don’t expect most women to go down on you with a smile on their face.  Instead, when she does want to give you a blowjob, make sure you’re doing everything you can to make it more pleasant for everyone.

Make sure you’re cleaned up - That’s right, take a shower or at least wipe down your penis before a blowjob.

Show her what to do - If you can show a woman what to do, she will see what makes you feel good and what they can do to get you off.  If that isn’t motivation to give blowjobs, nothing is.

Never force her - If you push on a girl’s head or you make her feel guilty for not wanting to give you a blowjob, that’s not going to make her enjoy it when the event does occur.

Yes, it is possible for a woman to enjoy a blowjob, but it’s not the favorite event of many women, so instead of thinking of it as a “She has to like it” part of your sex life, think about it as something you can work together on in order to make your sex life as full as possible.

She may never like it, but you can certainly make sure she doesn’t hate it either.

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