Question: Do girls like giving blowjobs?  How can a guy make it more enjoyable for her? Is it possible?

Blow Jobs?

This question comes up (no pun intended) so often.

Men have some sort of perception that women don’t like to give blowjobs, but this is far from the truth.  True, some women don’t like to give blowjobs and if you try to push them into liking to do the deed, they’re going to hate giving oral sex all the more.  But that makes sense, doesn’t it?

First of all, let’s not assume that women don’t like to give blowjobs.  Many do, and many more want to enjoy giving oral sex more, but they might not know what they’re doing or they might have had a bad experience in the past.

To make things more enjoyable for her, you need to be patient.  Don’t expect most women to go down on you with a smile on their face.  Instead, when she does want to give you a blowjob, make sure you’re doing everything you can to make it more pleasant for everyone.

Make sure you’re cleaned up - That’s right, take a shower or at least wipe down your penis before a blowjob.

Show her what to do - If you can show a woman what to do, she will see what makes you feel good and what they can do to get you off.  If that isn’t motivation to give blowjobs, nothing is.

Never force her - If you push on a girl’s head or you make her feel guilty for not wanting to give you a blowjob, that’s not going to make her enjoy it when the event does occur.

Yes, it is possible for a woman to enjoy a blowjob, but it’s not the favorite event of many women, so instead of thinking of it as a “She has to like it” part of your sex life, think about it as something you can work together on in order to make your sex life as full as possible.

She may never like it, but you can certainly make sure she doesn’t hate it either.

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Question: Is it normal for a female to pee instead of come while receiving oral sex ?

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Let’s start off by saying this - I am not a doctor.  But, if your girlfriend is peeing when she doesn’t want to be peeing, that seems it might be a medical issue that needs to get checked out by a doctor.

Now, assuming that her doctor gave her the all clear, you might want to ask yourself how enjoyable the oral sex seems to be for her.  If she’s having a great time, chances are good she isn’t peeing, but rather ’squirting’ or having female ejaculation.

This is a good thing.

Getting a woman to ejaculate is tricky business, and only some women can achieve it with only certain partners.  There are two schools of thought on this.  The clear ejaculate is coming from the vagina as secretions that occur during orgasm.  Or it might be a small amount of urine that comes out as she relaxes and tenses during orgasm.

Is it normal?  If the doctor says yes, your girlfriend isn’t in pain, and you don’t mind, then yes, it’s normal.

While this isn’t an overly common reaction to oral sex, it’s also not unheard of.

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