Erectile Dysfunction

Things between me and my gf were so good. Lately I’ve been losing my erection during sex. I’m usually able to get one before intercourse at least. Well tonight for the first time I couldn’t even get up at all. Is this most likely mental or physical? I’d rather not see a doctor but will if I feel I have to. This is really upsetting for me.

Okay, having troubles with your erection is an upsetting thing.  No matter how young you are or how old you are, you just expect your penis to perform whenever you need it to, right?

But things don’t always work out like that.

You need to ask yourself a few questions:

• How’s my health? - If you’re having health problems right now and you’re on any medications, that can cause troubles with your erections.  Check with your doctor about changing your prescriptions to something a little friendlier to your sex life.  If you’re not on any prescriptions, and you’ve been feeling under the weather, maybe it’s time to schedule an appointment for a checkup.
• How’s my stress? - If you’re stressed out, your risk of erection troubles goes up.  Think about it, you’re worried and your body isn’t quite up to the task of sex.  Try to find ways to relax and you can generally see improvement pretty quickly.
• How’s my fatigue? - If you’ve been missing out on sleep, it’s time to catch up to help your penis get back in the game.
• How’s my relationship? - You say that you and your girlfriend are doing okay, so that’s probably not an issue.  But if you have faced rough times in the past, that can affect your erections.
• How old am I? - Men who are older have a higher risk of erectile dysfunction, so if you’re over 50, you might need to go to your doctor for some help.

So, how did you do on these questions?  Find any answers?  Here’s the best advice - don’t stress out about it. The more tense you become about getting hard, the harder it will be.  Relax, enjoy yourself, and you’ll soon find erection troubles to be a thing of the past.

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What are some good tips for giving oral sex?

My husband and I have been together for 8 years. There is NOTHING that we haven’t done! I always tell him that “I’ll try anything once, twice if I like it” and I stick by that 120% Anyhow, he love getting oral sex from me and I was wondering if there are any SPECIAL tricks that will knock him off his feet! Please let me know your secrets!

First of all, I don’t think you need to hear this, but the best advice anyone can use in relation to blowjobs is to have fun. You should be enthusiastic when you’re down there – your man will appreciate it. If you’re just bobbing your head up and down while looking at the clock, chances are he’s going to realize you’re not into it.

Okay, you have the enthusiasm down, but what about the ‘tease’? Most women who are used to their partner’s body will just go for the blow and follow a regular routine until their partner cums. Sure, it’s effective, but what fun is that? Instead, make things a little bit more exciting by teasing your partner. Bring him to the edge of orgasm, then take your lips off his penis and move somewhere else on his body. When he’s calmed back down, then go back to sucking. Repeat until he starts to beg you to finish him off.

Don’t forget that the penis isn’t the only thing involved in a blowjob. Look for his scrotum and gently (emphasis on the gently, unless he’s into the hard stuff) massage and stroke this area as you suck or stroke his penis. This is going to feel amazing to him, but it will also keep him good and hard – and it will keep you from getting too fatigued.

Change up the strokes you use and try different kinds of pressure too as you are moving up and down his cock. This is going to create different sensations and help him enjoy every second all the more.

Cock Ring

A fun tip? Try a vibrating cock ring. Now, not every guy likes these, but why not give it a whirl. That vibration combined with the sucking and caressing can be mind blowing. Look in the cock section of your local sex toy shop or online store to find other goodies to try out.

I’m sure your man won’t mind.

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