If you have oral sex with a person with herpes during the out break, how soon the symptoms will appear?”

Thanks for the query. Herpes is a disease that’s quite easy to avoid if you have protection in place - condoms, latex gloves, other barrier methods, etc.

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And if your partner had herpes and didn’t disclose it - shame on them for not telling you. Herpes can be controlled with antiviral medications, but it is something that is never cured.

So, if you’ve been exposed, chances are good that this is something you will need to deal with for the rest of your life.

Herpes is transmitted when there is an outbreak, but it can also be transmitted when there are no visible sores - though this is rare. If your mouth had an open cut or broken skin, the herpes virus can spread into that cut and cause the disease.

It can take up to two weeks for the herpes sores to appear after initial contact so if you haven’t seen the sores come up yet, there’s still time for them to develop.

The reason why you don’t see the sores immediately is that the virus needs time to replicate in your body - so it might seem like you’re in the clear…until you’re not.

Outbreaks generally last for a few weeks, and then go away, and then the sores will reappear again and again throughout your life.

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How to Get Oral Sex?

Why don’t women enjoy pleasing their man with some good old fashion oral sex? My wife HATES it I mean HATES it and I love it. Oh and yes I have no problem going down on her either.

Here’s the main concern I have with this question: no woman has to do anything. It seems to me that if you’re sort of forcing the issue, you’re probably not making it any more exciting for your wife to try to see things your way. You need to make this something that’s important to you, but also something that she doesn’t feel pressured at doing.

Outside of the bedroom, you need to have a talk to see exactly what the problem is. If it’s a problem of hygiene or of logistics (some women have smaller mouths that can cramp easily, especially when their partner’s penis is larger), you need to do your part to help her feel more comfortable with whatever is bothering her. This should be a team effort to help both of you get what you want - not just one person pressuring the other.

Talk to your wife about how much it would please you to have oral sex more often. But realize that this conversation probably isn’t going to change things overnight. Each time she does go down on you, make sure you are being appreciative and that you point out how good that makes you feel. Sometimes women need to hear that they are pleasing their man and that encourages them to do more.

And if it’s a problem with putting her mouth on your penis - some women just don’t like it and can’t handle it - work on teaching her about hand jobs. This can be just as pleasing of an experience and certainly a middle ground that you can both enjoy.

Again, if you’re pressuring her or making her feel badly about her dislike of oral sex, chances are good that you’re never going to get any. Instead, try some of these tips and see what happens. In the end, after all, it’s up to her what she decides. But that doesn’t mean you can’t help her along the way.

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