24 Mar 08 How to Climax? Oral Sex Tips
Why after I get done blowing my boyfriend and we have sex, I can’t climax but he can?
Thank You Jessi for the question.
When you’ve performed oral sex for your boyfriend and then you have intercourse, it seems like you would both be hot and bothered enough to climax. Maybe not at the same time, but it seems like both of you could have an orgasm. What you might be encountering here is one of two things:
1. You might be a woman who can’t orgasm from intercourse and penetration alone. MANY women have this issue, so don’t think that it’s somehow your fault. Some women’s vaginal openings just aren’t sensitive enough or they can’t quite find the ’sweet spot’ that helps to get them off. Instead, have your boyfriend perform oral sex on you, if that brings you to orgasm (maybe the fun ‘69′ position? Or you might want to use a vibrator as you’re having intercourse to see if you can climax too.
2. The other thought is that you might not be as stimulated as he is when it finally gets around the ‘main event.’ What you need is some additional foreplay and touching to start feeling the same feelings your boyfriend is experiencing. If you’ve just given him a blowjob, turn things around and have him perform oral sex on you or stimulate you in some way that turns you on. Chances are good that the actual intercourse will be more satisfying for both of you.
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20 Mar 08 Oral Sex Clitoris - How do you use the Clit?
How do you use the clit in oral sex?
What you need to realize is that while you might have heard a lot about the clit (or clitoris, if you want to be formal about it) is that this is not the only erogenous zone on a woman’s body - though it is a powerful one.
The clitoris is above the urethral opening as well as above the vaginal opening. Shaped like a small knob and surrounded by a just as sensitive hood, this entire area is filled with nerve endings that stimulate the woman’s body to orgasm. In fact, most women can only achieve orgasm by stimulation of the clit.
Here are some ways to stimulate this area for the most intense orgasms of her life - lick, lightly bite, and rub this area repeatedly. Try to find a rhythm and a pressure that she leans into. The more the woman leans into you, the closer you are to her most sensitive areas. You can also massage the area with a well lubed finger or thumb. Vibrators can also help to stimulate the area if your tongue or hand needs a break.
Remember too that once a woman has an orgasm through clitoral stimulation; you will need to ease up on the pressure. Blood is engorging the area and it can actually hurt for her to continue to be touched. Wait a little bit and you can try for round two.
Thank You Amanda for your question!
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